Love...As i see it

If I am not wrong it is the most often used word, probably also that one word which is understood by people of different cultural & ethnic backgrounds all around the world. The feeling of being in love is the best thing that a person can experience & probably the only feeling that makes you behave in a manner that you would have never imagined. I can keep on giving thousand explanations of how beautiful Love is & what a feeling it is to be in love with some person but then also I would fall short by some margin.

Obviously there are always two sides of the same coin and although most of us know as to how beautiful “Love” is there are those who might also argue that sometimes “Love” also makes you do some acts that are not justified or probably not in the best interest of the society (If you understand in which direction am I trying to point). But i am going to write about only the positive side because I am a die hard optimist though sometimes I also go a little off track.

So when do you know that you are actually in “Love” & the person you are with is really that special one you had waited for all these years? Again as I said no set definition & no set rules in “Love” makes it a little complicated because we human beings are used to working in a set pattern & rules starting from our childhood. Oh ya we all see movies where in, it is expressed in thousands of different ways & you are always trying to recognize which one is your system or which one is your story & some where you lose the plot because every depiction of “Love” is beautiful. It might be “Holiday” or “Romeo & Juliet” or for that matter “Dilwale Dulhaniya Le Jayenge”, they all make you want to be there in all of them & they all appear cute to you because the artists are trying to depict things that have happened to you or you would aspire to happen to you.

 
Today the number of people who believe in “Love” might be on the lower side but then the truth is some of them have either experienced it & are scared that if they have it then they might lose it soon to somebody else or they might fail at the first place in getting it only.There are those also who probably know that once they will get that “loved one” of theirs then they might not get a chance to be with anybody else because it will be so good that they will not feel like leaving it & being with anybody else & that according to them would be bad since the bunch of loser friends that they have will make fun of them & make them so ashamed of themselves as if they have committed a crime but then the truth is that that those friends of theirs are all a bunch of jerks & losers who themselves are devoid from the best feeling in the world & they will act funny since they are jealous of you.

So the right thing to do is that no matter what happens just don’t leave that special one if you ever come across him/her, also don’t be scared of it because worse come worse you might lose it but then the pleasure & happiness that It will give you till the time it was there in your life is sometimes enough to carry on without anything in life or in the other scenario that the person was not that special one, then also you would never repent that you didn't give it a chance & who knows some of us are also lucky to get that special one twice in one lifetime.

A Gentleman's Perspective

I believe that each one of us wants to do many different things in their lives but all of us have to choose just one of them and then stick by it for the remaining years of our life. If you think your past,your present and your future is all dependent of how good you are at making the right choices.We have to choose the right stream during our school days, the right course during graduation, right college during post-graduation, the right career for our professional life and the right life partner for our personal life.

So all in all it’s all about the choices that we make. Opportunities are there all around us but it finally boils down to which one do we identify and choose to turn the table around. It is this extra pressure of making the right choices (which determines your present and future) that makes people to falter and forget what they really want from their lives. Trust me people the percentage of such creatures is astonishingly high, in fact it would be 98% in favour of them but then that is what saddens me the most to see these people who are making wrong choices a lot of times just because the outcome of today might affect their tomorrow drastically which scares them to make the right choices which probably might not ensure the same results. It is a trade-off between what you really want to do and what you need to do. The passion is lost somewhere in this rush of things and results in temporary happiness for some years but when some of us look back at times we think fuck man what would have happened if I would have done that shit which I really wanted to do always but I will never come to know because I was so busy doing those things that were the need of the hour that I lost my way. There is no guarantee that what you think is your passion might actually be your passion but rather a craving of doing something that you haven’t tried your hand at and you feel that probably it is something that you also might be good at, so I should be doing it!!

Anyways what is the right way or what is the wrong way is all about the perception of the person. I don’t know myself which way I am going but sometimes it feels nice to let yourself loose and go with the flow because thinking too much about the future sometimes gets to you and takes out all the fun from your life. So live your life for the moment and make the most of it and follow your passion even if you lose everything, even if after doing it you realize that it is not actually your passion but do it because in the hay days of your life when you look back you will never have any qualms what so ever, immaterial of the fact that whether you get rich or become poor after doing things you will never have any qualms because the experience that you would have got by doing things that you wanted to do with your own free will can never give you a feeling of regret. In fact it can only make you proud that atleast I tried as only the brave and the courageous can follow their passions rest all will keep doing things by looking at the other person and burning himself out in this race to become the leader of these pack of fools. There is a lot more to add to this but next time since this fool also has to continue his journey of staying ahead in the rat race, until then its good bye.